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reach

for making the first move


Making the first move is an act of support in itself. It takes courage and innate observation skills. Many people are reluctant to say anything when they need help in fear of burdening others, so taking that initiative shows your concern.


Those who prefer reach as their pillar of support may feel a little hesitant to initiate whether that comes from a place of insecurity or just general tendency to keep to themselves. But that lack of reach on their end doesn’t mean they don’t want others to establish communication in hopes that they can then reciprocate and continue it. These people appreciate the concern and interest others express in them by making the first move!



how others reach out


Sending memes to my friend that remind me of them or conversations we’ve had.
Initiating a conversation when I see someone sitting alone in a room full of people.
Keeping track of what people post on social media and reach out when they seem like their having a tough time.
Reaching out to an old friend to stay in contact when we haven't spoken in a while.
Asking questions if I know they are more reluctant to initiate
Cooking and packing meals for my loved ones
Finding and sharing new activities a friend and I can do together based on our common interests
Commenting on a friends social media posts every so often to let them know I'm still there for them