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advise

for sharing some insight


For those looking for a more practical solution to their problems, having someone take in what you are saying and offer advice accordingly can help to ease any anxieties, and uncover a new perspective that may not have been considered prior.


Those who prefer advise as their pillar of support look for others to give them genuine help and solutions to their problems. They appreciate hearing others perspectives and aren’t afraid of a little bit of constructive criticism. There’s generally a more practical approach to thinking involved here where those who prefer the advise pillar seek resources, contexts, and solutions to tackle their emotions at the core.




how others advise


Offering my friends interview advice when they ask since I work at a career services office.
Catering my advice based on the type of person they are and who I know them as.
Trying to only offer advice to someone if they want it and give me permission to.
Choosing my words and language according to the way someone prefers to hear things.
Offering substantial words instead of more cliché statements
Sending friends resources that I think would be helpful to them